The Solution to most problems in the world
You can't have your cake and eat it too ! Today is Sept 30th. Last year Canada marked this as the National Day for Truth and Reconciliation or orange shirt day ,. This post is inspired by a speaker I heard this morning on the radio. They were talking about the difference between a 'rules follower', and a 'relationship follower'. Basically, that rather then being worried of whether or not you are 'breaking the rules' offending people, it is better instead to focus instead on how can you improve your relationship with others (eg: Indigenous people). It's much more complicated then just the 'do's and don'ts'. It is not anything the same as 'table manners'. As a society, we pretty much suck. This is not to say we do not improve over time, but simply meant to point out that fundamentally we all are responsible for a) Rushing to the 'quick fix' over the long term 'hard work' b) Complaining that it is up to others (eg: